Don’t feel like getting out of bed in the morning? 8 simple ways to motivate you.

Good evening, dear friends ๐Ÿ˜€

Ever woke up in the morning and the first thought that comes to your mind is, “I just don’t want to get out of bed….groan…..ย  ๐Ÿ˜ฅ ?”

Or this, “Arrrgh, I have to face the same old things today…..groan….,” and you hide yourselves further under the covers and refuse to budge?ย Despite the fact thatย you may be late for work or late in getting your kids to school? ๐Ÿ™„

At this point, it is very hard to try and motivate ourselves because we are already stuck in the rut. So, what I am going to point out here are some simple ways that you canย apply while you ARE NOT IN THE RUT YET because they are meant to be preventive measures. For me, it is imperative that I do this because everyday, day in and day out, it has been more or less the same type of tasks that I face for the lastย 8 years that I have been a full time homemaker. Sometimes, the monotony of it all can really get to me…

Now, on the term “homemaker” – I am going to loosely define that as someone (mostly ladies; well, men, too, are includedย if they are involved in this and I applaud them indeed! ๐Ÿ˜€ ) who manages and cares for the household, turning it into a cosy home and sanctuary where her family can take refuge in. This will include full-time stay-at-home moms like me, working wives, single moms, work-from-home moms and new wives, okay?

Try and adopt some of the ways mentioned below :-

1) when you go to bed at night, you should be in a positive frame of mind, with a good thought. If you fall asleep with the last thought being negative like, “Oh boy, tomorrow is Monday, it’s going to be the blues for me…,”, you are going to wake up the next day definitely feeling depressed and you are going to be stuck in bed for sure!

2) similarly, when you wake up, try to have a positive first thought, like, “Today is going to be a wonderful and beautiful day!” Do this even if you are going to be facing an onslaught of heavy workload that day, and I can bet you with this start up in the morning, you are in a better condition to face your new day. ๐Ÿ˜€

3) you can do positive affirmations like, “I am happy, I am healthy, I am prosperous,” in the morning and throughout the day because they will help to “prompt” your mood for the day.

4) remember that it doesn’t pay for you to be in a bad mood once you wake up. Have you noticed how come things can go even more wrong just when you are in a bad mood? Especially when you are angry? So, say no to bad moods and crankiness!

5) try to plaster a smile on your face! Now, I said “plaster” because when you are in a lousy mood, there is no way you can even bring yourself to feel like smiling. So, what you have to do is to force your mouth to smile, even if you have to bring up your two forefingers to the edges of your lips and lift them up into a semblance of a smile! ๐Ÿ˜† Hahaha! Isn’t this fun? It may feel ridiculous to you doing that, but trust me, it works after a few minutes, cos somehow, your mood is not as down as before and that smile of yours may just turn genuine! Or you will be uplifted by your own laughter, laughing at your silly antics! By the way, keep smiling as much as you can during the day. ๐Ÿ˜€

6) promise yourself a reward for the end of the day if you have tried your best to have a good day. I have different little rewards just for myself every day…..going to the mamak stall for a nice cup of lime tea (teh O ice limau), or just putting up my tiredย legs and watch aย good movie, or just having some quiet time to myself “vegetating” my brain, i.e. just not doing any thinking.


7 ) it helps a lot to laugh during the day. I alway believe that, “Laughter is the BEST medicine” because when we laugh, our brain produces endorphins, a feel-good hormone. Watch a sit-com, or read some jokes, or better still tell some jokes to someone and make them laugh instead! ๐Ÿ˜†


8 ) our body has auras which can accumulate negative energies during the day and over a period, the auras can become dull and heavy, thus making us feel lethargic, dull and sluggish. I like to call this condition “being in the Twilight Zone” because that is precisely how I would feel. The remedy is easy and all you need to do is a salt bath to clean your auras.

There are other ways that I can think of to help energise our life but I will stop here at 8, because I am hungry and I need to goย have my dinner now –ย my brain is screaming for food and refuse to think anymore! ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ™„

Good night and may you have a wonderful day tomorrow! ๐Ÿ˜€

With peace and joy,

choesf ๐Ÿ˜€


8 Responses so far »

  1. 1

    sweetrosie said,

    Excellent advice as usual dear choesf ๐Ÿ™‚ I must admit to sleeping like a log lately, a combination of tired and (relatively stress free at the moment I think)
    Your salt scrubs are to be recommended to everyone. They really do work and I love them.
    ps – love the kitty! ๐Ÿ™‚
    Have a lovely weekend dear,
    with love and hugs xx


  2. 2

    happyhomemaker88 said,

    You, too, dear sweetrosie? Hehe, I came out with this post because I was feeling unwell these past 2 weeks and it was really difficult for me to get out of bed! ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜†

    After consulting a Chinese Physician twice, I’m glad to say that I am almost back to my normal self!

    Have a relaxing Sunday!

    With love and hugs,

    choesf ๐Ÿ˜€


  3. 3

    maya said,

    I love reading your yoga experience and would like to try it. My question is can I do my sauna by adding the sea salt in the water.


  4. 4

    happyhomemaker88 said,

    Hello there, dear Maya ๐Ÿ˜€

    Yes, I believe this will work also in energising yourself to a lesser degree than having an actual salt bath or salt scrub. The vapours released in the sauna will contain some salt molecules, too. Remember those times when we were just standing at the beach and enjoying the sea breeze? Actually, it is the sea air (with salt molecules) that is removing some of our negative energies, cleansing our auras and energising us. ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Have a great weekend and enjoy your sauna!

    With peace and joy,

    choesf ๐Ÿ˜€


  5. 5

    happyhomemaker88 said,

    Hi there, dear friends ๐Ÿ˜€

    I am experiencing perimenopausal symptoms, one of which is I can’t sleep as well during the night as I used to. As such, I am finding it difficult to wake up in the morning and go about my chores. ๐Ÿ™„

    Heheh, I remembered this post that I had written more than a year ago. Well, I just read it again with a good laugh and I thought you may like to read this, too (for those of you that are following the comment box here). ๐Ÿ˜†

    Good Night!

    With best wishes for good health,

    choesf ๐Ÿ˜€


  6. 6

    Laura Martin said,

    This seems like very positive helpful information. I’ve been aiming for the more positive and I will use your advice. Thanks.


    • 7

      happyhomemaker88 said,

      Hi there and welcome, dear Laura ๐Ÿ˜€

      Sorry for the late reply – my Internet connection has been acting up. ๐Ÿ˜ณ

      Thank you for your kind comments. May you be well, happy and peaceful always! ๐Ÿ˜€

      There are some free prayers at this site HERE, where I am a Moderator.

      With best wishes,

      choesf ๐Ÿ˜€


  7. 8

    happyhomemaker88 said,

    Hello there, dear friends ๐Ÿ˜€

    Wow, time flies and it’s been 4 years since my blog started. Hope this post helps to motivate you to a good day! ๐Ÿ˜†

    With best wishes,

    choesf :D:


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